Posts Tagged caregiving
Does My Loved One Need a Caregiver?
Posted by JG in Caregiving, Health, Long-Term Care, Senior Older Adult and Elderly on February 23, 2018
When do you know if your loved one needs a caregiver?
Below are some items you may want to monitor, as you visit your loved one.
-Mail is piling up, bills are not being paid, calls from collection agencies
-The yard or house is no longer being maintained
-Changes in personal hygiene or change in typical behavior (like smoking in the bed, when the person used to only smoke outside).
-Changes in typical habits of eating/diet and exhibiting weight loss (or noticing clothing is now loose)
-Forgetting to take medication
-Unexplained dents or scratches on car (from bumping into objects when driving) Read the rest of this entry »
Caring For Those Who Care
Posted by JG in Beauty, Caregiving, Health, Joy in aging, Long-Term Care, Senior Older Adult and Elderly on February 5, 2018
To learn more about this terrific series visit:
Caregiving in the US -2009 Statistics
Posted by JG in Caregiving, Long-Term Care, Research, Senior Older Adult and Elderly, Social Work on September 24, 2015
Source: Acknowledgements – Caregiving_in_the_US_2009_full_report.pdf
Are you a caregiver or know someone who is? Caregiving for another person, whether it be a child or adult can take a great amount of physical and mental energy. The stress of being a caregiver is sometimes overwhelming. The latest statistics that I am able to locate on this topic is found at the above site. Even though it dates back to 2009, it provides very detailed information for those who want to learn more about this topic. The research was conducted by the National Alliance for Caregiving, in collaboration with AARP. It was funded by Metlife.
Working Together to Care for Mom or Dad
Posted by JG in Health, Long-Term Care, Senior Older Adult and Elderly on August 15, 2015
Advice for Adult Siblings to Provide Care for Elderly Parents – AARP.
Are you a caregiver for an elderly parent? Perhaps you are a senior yourself, caring for an aged sibling… This article from AARP was written by a man who moved his aging mother from Florida to an apartment near his home in Pennsylvania. The author of this article is the older of two brothers and there is a disagreement between the two siblings as to how much care their mother needs and who should provide the care. Dealing with these issues over their mother’s care has caused the resurfacing of some childhood dynamics.
A few terrific points have been made:
- Remember the stakes are high- when siblings work together the aging parent will receive better care
- Beware of reversion- try to see your sibling as an adult and don’t revert back to relationship patterns of early family life (work together as a equally respectable team, recognizing each others’ strengths)
- Shelf the sexism- sons are capable of providing good care to an aging parent (don’t expect your sister to always be the caregiver)
- Equality is unrealistic and possible inefficient- it may be one adult child is doing a large part of the care giving or decision making for an aging parent, but there are very real and helpful ways for other adult siblings to help out throughout the year (even if they live in another state)
- Be kind to one another- its okay to vent caregiving frustrations to a sibling, but always be respectful in doing so, and thankful for what others have contributed as well
- Advice is easy to give, but hard to implement- it is easy to say we “should do this”, but sometimes very difficult to implement… know that caregiving can be very stressful and being able to talk about it openly, respectfully (especially when there is a challenge) is a journey
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